The Annual Four Word Resolution
I don't make much of a fuss about New Year's resolutions. After all, I reason, my list from this year isn't wrapped up and is giving me enough room for growth. I'm not looking to stretch myself because of the flip of the calendar.
But then I remember that I do, in fact, make one non-resolution, resolution every year.
I call it that because it's less of a "to do" and more of a posture. In fact, as resolutions go, it's rather underwhelming.
The four words:
Try something new daily.
I've made this "resolution" for ages. I can't change my goal to do "new." Ironic, don't you think?
Still, the consistency helps me remember my plan. It helps me lean towards saying "yes" to the unfamiliar and keeps me looking for freshness. Of course, 99% of the time, this plays out in little things.
Something new often involves FOOD (of course!):
- What to eat
- How to cook
- What to order
- What to buy
- Which recipe to try
- Which restaurant to visit
Something new often involves exploring my physical space:
- Trying a new route to work
- Fighting traffic with new techniques (I follow cars who seem to confidently follow a different path -- do you ever do that?)
- Taking a street just to see where it leads
- Hunting for a new getaway spot
The easiest "new introduction" is with reading:
- Change my news source (bye-bye Twitter)
- Pick up a different author
- Read a book from a new genre
- Explore a different section of the library
The toughest "new" always involves meeting new people:
- Cold call someone a friend said I should meet
- Attend a parent meeting I would normally skip
- Be the first one in on the table introductions
- Engage in the chat with my "seatmate" on the plane (bye-bye headphones)
You can see how the categories grow. There can be one for fashion or one for gardening. You could make one for crafting or parenting. The options are endless.
I don't view this as a strict, check off the "new thing" list, but I DO plant it in the back of my brain to remind me of what I value: growth.
Are you a resolution person? What works for you? What keeps you growing?!